how difficult to get a “HUMAN” called a “FRIEND”
not write blog for the long time, i think this is my first blog on 2011. and this little a true story ;)
in a case we must have felt at the betrayed or exploited by human that called friends. At first it did not we realize, after some time we become aware of and a friendship that would be an adversarial. if a good start why can be terminated with a bad thing. Moreover sometimes we may have been too open with our daily lives with a "friend" is. This is ultimately underlies the thinking that gave portions of friends just like other friends. Don’t call it a special friend and don’t treat them like really-really good friend . Cause it will be “destroyed” your self. But luckly me, that i really “have” good friend. Yes there are really good friend now, when some insulted “me”, they always in the front stand up for me, but i dunno later. ;).
Now we talking about friend that try to “exploit” you. this friend can’t be detect at first like who friend is cheating you although is will be same result ;). because this friend still good friend for you, but on behind you this “friend” will “utilize” you, until you trapped onto “her”, and don’t know maybe you have little felling about her “if that friend girl” ;), and he/she know that, he/she will try to utilizing you. it’s really bad because this friend need you because he “ONLY” need companion or something. if there no need again maybe he/she will dumped you ;). More bad from only cheating, not only material, but you will be lost faith/trust that you build on he/she.
So starting now you must carefull for chossing a friend, how type they are you don’t on they heart, what they want', what they need, what they fell. Treat a friend like other friend. even is “really” good friend they still mistery.